Kathryn's Blog

I personally have been on dating sites trying to find women,which I have suceeded in doing a few times,when I myself,am married.I will probably continue to do so as well….You always have the option on dating websites to put yourself as single.

Posted by me  on  03/17  at  06:48 PM

Oooh, now that’s a creapy comment.  There are dating sites just for married folks who want to fool around, like ashleymadison.com.  Go there.  Unless it adds to the thrill to deceive a woman by making her think you really are single and available.  Lord help us.

Kathryn

Posted by Kathryn Lord  on  03/18  at  03:45 AM

I met, dated and married someone off of yahoo singles…...he is a user, loser and left me with a huge mess of bills. Recently saw him back on soliciting himself again….lieing about a lot. We are not legally separated, however, I told him to leave. He says he makes 50-75 thousand a year….I laughed. I am currently working two and three jobs to clear up the 5 month marital debt which by the way is unheard of. He talked me into purchases stating that he would help with. He is now doing what he does best…...running from responsibility and debt. Probably victimizing his next female…I found out I am not the first and would bet money right now that I don’t have that I am not the last. Some unlucky woman out there is financing the bipolar idiot.

Sheri

Posted by Sherita Willett  on  03/28  at  06:20 AM

In reference…..I have to add that as my soon-to-be exhusband is parading himself not only that he makes excessive money, but says that he is divorced (he’s still legally married). He is also on Fling.com posing as divorced and ready for group sex and parades himself otherwise as a strong devout christian. I guess if the situation calls for it he uses that line. I have debtors and collectors calling me over his bills. If I can cause one person that reads this to stop and think enough to prevent someone making the grave mistake of bringing someone into their life like this, then I have helped someone. Their are some crazies out there, and men like this are a dime a dozen and easily found. As one of my dear friends said “I thought I had a rose blossom, twas only an onion that grew”  Ladies, gentlemen, anyone…....be careful and take your time to get to know them. I know not everyone is like him, but BE CAREFUL! Make sure before you marry them that you understand the formulation of many of their family relationships and friendships on many levels. Don’t feel sorry for them if they seem to have no one in their life and alienation is a prevalent factor….....HE or SHE may be the problem not the others.

One who knows,
Sheri W

Posted by Sherita Willett  on  03/28  at  07:29 AM

Please don’t scare those girls that are looking for a mate online. Not all the guys are bad, but keep your eyes wide open.

Posted by cbr600rr Fairings  on  12/11  at  10:54 AM

I met a man on match.com who also advertised himself as divorced.  Only to find out 2 months later he was never divorced.  He then gives me this storyline that he was going thru a divorce and that the divorce is taking 4 and a half years.  that the attorneys are holding it up.  Bull.. no divorce takes that long.  All this information is public record.  Guess what he never filed for a divorce to begin with.  He lied thru his teeth.  I dated him over two months never had been to his home.  and found out he was never even filing for a divorce and still living with the wife.  Why these men call themselves men I have no idea.  And the poor wife that puts up with this kind of life.  I feel so sorry for them.  They should create a web site where we can report these men like a scammer site.  So woman can check men out before they date them. 

Seriouslylooking

Posted by seriouslylooking  on  02/21  at  01:38 AM

I met a man on Match.com who presented himself as ‘divorced’, and with 2 kids ‘living away from home.’  We dated for almost three months, yet I never visited him at his home.  Although I asked about it numerous times, he always gave me some excuse.  Finally, he gave me his “home address”, which I looked up and discovered DID NOT EXIST.  From there, it was on.  I did a reverse look up on his email address and found that he had even lied about his name!! I was flabbergasted.  I researched further and found that he was married, and still living with his wife and kids. I let him know that I was on to him, and he begged me to let him explain, but I was having none of it.  I told him to never call me again!  Looking back, there were definitely a few red flags that I should have heeded, but I thought I had found a good match.  Lesson learned: follow your instincts, and when something seems too good to be true, it probably is.

Posted by Betrayed  on  04/22  at  04:33 AM