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Millionaire Dating and the Yick Factor

I watched the first episode of Millionaire Matchmaker and I have to say that even though I have set the Tivo to tape the whole series, I dunno if I am going to be able to stomach watching.  The Yick Factor was VERY high.

I sorta liked last year’s Confessions of a Matchmaker.  Patti Novak in Buffalo worked with average folks and did what she could to pair them up.  I even sat next to Patti this last fall at a conference.  She’s “just plain folks” herself.  Doesn’t look like A&E has continued the show for another season.  Maybe later.

But Millionaire Matchmaker—oooeee!  These are not just plain folks at all.

Patti Stanger started The Millionaire’s Club in 2000. From the website:  Patti realized that busy, upscale men simply didn’t have the time to go looking for a relationship, weren’t meeting the kind of women that they dreamed about, or were looking for a certain “type” that they couldn’t currently find. These men needed a service where they could be introduced to exceptionally beautiful women in a relaxing, discreet and confidential manner.

The Millionaire Club is based in Los Angeles, and it shows.  Money money money— in exchange for looks looks looks.  The guys?  Puhleeze!  On the first show, one of them made his money selling sex toys online, and the other was in his mid 40’s and wanted to date women in their 20’s.  Even Patti thought the cradle robber was seriously deluded and told him so.  Mr. Sex Toy had to be told to hide the sex toys in his office, but couldn’t be convinced to move the stripping pole there too.

Now, the Millionaire Club staff got together a bevy of gorgeous women for these two to look over—and amazingly enough, none of the ladies left when they found out about the source of Mr. Sex Toy’s money.  They were all coiffed and made up to the 9’s, in teensy dresses that they hung out over on all edges, and were teetering around in high heels.

Both guys pick one for a date, both guys wanted to see the ladies again, and both ladies dropped out.  Glad to see that the girls at lease had some taste.  Mr. Sex Toy and date (Harvard educated, can you believe?) had a nice dinner in a restaurant, then HE TAKES HER BACK TO HIS PLACE AND DOES A DANCE ON THE POLE FOR HER.  At least he kept his clothes on.  Minus for her that it took her a couple of more dates to say “No thanks.”

Mr. Cradle Robber took his date out on what looked like a huge yacht with its own crew.  Even though she said she’s see him again, she didn’t return his calls to set up the date.  Bully for her.

I’d like to know what y’all think of these millionaire matching sites.  Do they creep you out like they do me?

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Comments

I posted a profile once on SugarDaddyForMe, just to see what would happen. Unbelievably, I got a LOT more responses there than on yahoo personals or eharmony or match.com, combined. I was too scared to answer any of the messages I received, and most were out of state anyway, but I was puzzled as to why a 39 year old woman is too old to attract a date on a mainstream dating site, but is apparently acceptable on a sugar daddy site, where millionaires (or guys pretending to be millionaires) would contact me in droves? Too weird. I still don’t understand it.

> I’d like to know what y’all think
> of these millionaire matching sites.

They’re all bogus.

If you read the research done by Thomas J. Stanley (“The Millionaire Mind”, “The Millionaire Next Door”), you find the typical millionaire is nothing like the Hollywood portrayal.  In particular, they tend to have gotten where they are by being frugal over the course of a lifetime, so they are both older and not free-spending cash cats.  They also tend to be stable, boring, and married for a long time.  So, these websites are all trying to exploit peoples’ misperceptions. The fantasy lifestyle may exist in small pockets, but most people exhibiting it are likely posers in my estimation.  The very well-off tend to not want to stand out very much, for obvious reasons.

Besides, if relatively young and decent looking millionaire men are so desirable and in such demand compared to the supply, why do they have to pay to be on such websites?  Shouldn’t the websites—at last count there were more than a dozen of them—be paying *them* to get them to join, the way a sports team pays a competitive amount to get a desirable player to sign?  Their number is miniscule compared to the number of beautiful women—there are 1.4 million women aged 22-35 who rate in the top 5% beauty-wise, which must be 20 or 50 times the number of men we’re talking about.  So the sites, which tend to be free to women but charge large amounts to men, are basically just come-ons for chumps, using women as bait.  In other words, nothing really new or different.

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WOW! Thats incredible. Much more like the craigslist type site. I think, some of them are just pretending and some are full of scam. Just my opinion.

I know another famous millionaire dating site called ‘richmatchmaking.com’ where my sis found her true love. I am not sure if it works for me. Anyhow, money is not wrong

They also have some good free dating sites like plenttyofphish.com and okcupid.com Great Sites

you read the research done by Thomas J. Stanley “The Millionaire Mind”, “The Millionaire Next Door”), you find the typical millionaire is nothing like the Hollywood portrayal.

Those are all fakers. Non of them are real. They got a fake profile. Maybe they are all minors.

These shows are all about making money from advertisers and are usually short lived. I do love watching them in my houston midtown apartments though.

WOW! Thats incredible.why do they have to pay to be on such websites?

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THX :D, Katharine.

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I thought the show sucked and glad I stopped watching it after the first ten minutes. Happy to see I am not the only one the got creepy feelings from the show.

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