What if all the interesting ones are gay?
Jeanne has problem typical for women as they get older: Fewer available men, and in Jeanne’s case, the men she would be otherwise interested in are gay. What to do?
Dear Kathyrn,
I am 63 and have been diivorced 7 years. I find it nearly impossible to find men in my age range- 50’s and 60’s. I have been to so many group activities. Even men friendly ones like financial planning but the men are young. If I ever meet a man near my age he is married or gay or a complete loser. I am an actor. I like men in the arts so I can have something in common with them. Most men I have met online are business types who I find boring. Men in theatre are mostly gay. Jeanne
Dear Jeanne— 1. Go online. That’s where the guys are. 2. Wouldn’t it be nice to meet a straight man as interesting as a gay man in the arts? As you have noticed, they are either married or gay, for the most part. Plus you have lots of competition: many single women are looking for the same men you are, men who are interested in the arts. So what are your choices? Enjoy you gay male friends for their liveliness and interests similar to yours, and learn to appreciate straight men the way they are and for what they have to offer. At 63, you’ll have a hard enough time finding a quality straight man near your age, let alone one who is in the arts. Kathryn
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