Does it surprise you that so many people say they want to find a Sweetheart, but seem to fail time after time?

Here's a quick self-assessment that you can use to decide how ready you are to "Find a Sweetheart Soon!" Answer "Yes, No, or Sort of" to the following:

1. Do you have a crystal clear, realistic vision of the relationship you want? Yes    No    Sort Of   

2. Do you know the steps that you need to take to make that relationship happen? Yes    No    Sort Of   

3. Are you aware of and maximize you best qualities? Yes    No    Sort Of   

4. Have you made a clear choice to do what needs to be done to bring a Sweetheart into your life? Yes    No    Sort Of   

5. Do you have a supportive team around you, cheering you on in your mate search? Yes    No    Sort Of   

6. Have you looked carefully at your past relationships and learned what you could about the pluses and minuses, both in your partner and in your own actions? Yes    No    Sort Of   

7. Do you know how to keep your energy up during your search? Yes    No    Sort Of   

8. Have you finished the business, emotional and otherwise, that was left over from your past relationships? Yes    No    Sort Of   

9. Have you done a thorough inventory of yourself and your surroundings, and done what you can do to present the whole of you in the best possible light? Yes    No    Sort Of   

10. Have you kept yourself intellectually stimulated and interesting? Yes    No    Sort Of   

11. Are your finances in good shape and can you explain them to a new partner? Yes    No    Sort Of   

12. Are you ready to be honest and open about your life, sharing what might be painful or embarrassing information that a new Sweetheart should know? Yes    No    Sort Of   

13. Do you have a good, positive attitude that is readily communicated about relationships and opposite sex? Yes    No    Sort Of   

to calculate your score.

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If your computer does not calculate your score automatically, give yourself 2 points for every "Yes," 1 point for "Sort of," and no points for every "No." Add up the results.